who'd just lost =who had just lost ,过去完成时,表示过去某时刚失去
small kindnesses 是指“小的善举”如:
I do not see there would be any value in having a website dedicated to small kindnesses. Generally speaking, small kindnesses are personal, simple, unaffected actions that have a positive, albeit often minor, impact on other (s). Indeed, small kindnesses are often not even noticed. A website dedicated to celebrating small kindenesses misses the mark. The whole thrust of small kindnesses is that they don’t have a huge build-up, followed by a gushing of thanks. They simply happen, & a ‘thank you’ is a bonus, but only really on a personal level, not broadcast on the internet. Small kindnesses should just be small kindnesses… with no big song or dance about it. Just small kindnesses; let them stay like that. http://www.matthewtaylorsblog.com/socialbrain/small-kindnesses/